Travel destinations and preparation

Have you decided upon where to go next? And how do you prepare the trip once you found a destination? At an early stage, I learned that the more you travel the longer your list of places you want to see becomes. You'd think your bucket list would become shorter, but in the contrary - it grows longer with every trip you take ;) If you're looking for ideas and inspiration on google for instance, you usually find lists and recommendations from Lonely Planet , Tripadvisor or National Geographic . Usually when I travel, I talk to other travellers to be inspired by them, their travels, experiences and stories. Following a fellow traveller's personal reference is never disappointing, more often than not rewarding. Of course I also get inspired by places and things I see on TV, in documentaries or in blogs and forums, but in my opinion nothing beats the advise of a fellow traveller who has already been there. What do you think? How do you pick your destination(s)? When...